If you are a single man and looking for a woman to be your girlfriend and hoping to end up as a wife, you probably have googled the question, “what women are looking for in a man”? If you have, you should consider this practical advice from worship leader, Rick Pino.
- Hygiene – Women want their man to smell good all the time. So, make sure that you are paying attention to your hygiene. Be sure that you take a bath every day, brushing your teeth at least twice a day, and putting on deodorant.
- Be a good provider – It’s true that God is our Great Provider but if you want women to find you attractive, you’ve got to make it clear to them that you are able to raise a family of your own because you are able to do so financially. So, if you are jobless right now, get up, pray to God to open doors of opportunities for you, listen to His voice, and go get that job!
- Be a man of God – If you seek for a woman of God, be a man of God first. You wanna know what are the qualities a woman of God possesses? Here are some from Proverbs 31:10-28:
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings, she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
In her hand, she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her”
Have a vision – It is important that you know where you would want to be in life in the next 5 or 10 years. Women want security not only financially but also where life is taking them. And they want to reach that place with the man they love.